There have been numerous studies that have debunked the theory that homeschooling up to the beginning of highschool has a detrimental effect on a childs social growth. Check the net, look on scholar google or your local university library website. You will be able to cite real scientific evidence that proves them wrong. By the time a kid reaches high school age, you hsould have already succeeding in teaching them proper study habits, the ability to learn without having their hand held, etc... I say let them go to highschool if they choose, to help with teen socializing. If you have been successful in passing on your family values, then this will sustain them through through the trying times. They DO need to learn how to interact with others in stressful and bad situation, since that is the real world and the business world. But there is no reason at all to have them homeschooled, at leas to highschool age. And don't listen to the nay sayers, they know not of which they speak.

Ugh the critics come out of the woodwork when you mention homeschooling.
"cultists"
"bible thumpers"
"hippies"
"wierdos"
I have been called just about everything. I have been homeschooling my 11 yr old for 3 years-going on 4. He went to school right up to grade 2 when we pulled him from the "Institution". I have given him the choice every year- school or home? He chooses home.
I am floored when people sit and complain about having to spend time with thier OWN children- during summer break, holidays...- it's really sad that it becomes a joke to "get rid of the kids".....why the hell did you have them then?

I have twin girls who are in kindergarten right now- and I am signing them up for a distance ed. grade one- my whole family has gone nuts. They think this is horrible-bad-we're ruining our kids.....oh really?

I have faith in my Husband and I have faith in myself- I also see how strong our family is and how we avoid some of the stress other parents have (especially with negative peer pressure.) We have TONS of social activities and sports so I know we are getting out...in fact..I'm busier doing things outside the home than actually doing sit down work!

I can go on forever- but the proof to yourself is how YOU feel.

I used to get very irate and hurt- but now when people ask"How can you stand to do it?"
I say "How can I not? I love my kids and they love me."
He that has no sin -cast the first stone....right? Are they perfect????????

We have an amazing family and people always comment on how close we seem and how our kids have awesome manners etc.....it is GOOD to be a parent who cares!!!! Don't let anyone tell you it's not OK to WANT to be with your kids!!

Personally, my experience, tells me that homeschooling works quite well. My homeschooled children are 12 and 9 now and doing quite well. I suggest that you find homeschool groups in your area to help you with your concerns and give you and your children ample opportunities to "socialize".

www.home-school.com/groups/OR.html

Might help you find some of these groups.

People change their attitude when they have actual first hand experience with homeschooled children as opposed to the stereotypes that they have in their heads.

Good luck and realize that most if not ALL of the naysayers simply have NO experience to base their opinion on. It's also YOUR decision, make the decision that is best for you and your children.

We are currently in South Seattle, WA, however it's likely we will visit Portland again in the next few months. Should you like us to attempt to include a visit with you while we are there, please message me privately.